I can’t tell you how many times I hear some version of that question. “But Bella… is that like… normal?” Or, “Can you just tell me if something is wrong with me? ” It’s one of the most common things people ask me. So let’s talk about “normal.” First of all… what the fuck does that even mean? One person’s “normal” doesn’t define anything, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy. In the world of sex and eroticism, almost anything can be someone’s normal (of course, a
